The Boundaried Black Femme

Love isn’t always red roses and heart-shaped boxes. Sometimes, it’s a boundary, a full-body “no,” or a quiet moment alone. This boundary workbook guide is a love letter to Black femmes who are done being drained. That said, it is a resource for anyone in their boundary setting journey.

This is your Survival Kit—a guide to reclaim your energy, affirm your worth, and honor yourself first.

Rooted in Black feminist thought and cultural critique, this digital toolkit offers:

• 🔥 Framing essays on boundaries, labor, and self-preservation
• ✍🏾 Reflective prompts to help you identify your needs and energy leaks
• 🧘🏾‍♀️ Grounding exercises for sitting with discomfort and reclaiming peace
• 🎧 Resource recommendations curated specifically for Black femmes
• 🚨 Real talk about how systemic expectations and colorism shape the way boundaries feel

This isn’t just a self-help guide—it’s a liberatory practice. Whether you’re burnt out from care work, done with people-pleasing, or simply ready to choose you first—this guide is here to help you do just that.

Set your boundaries. Protect your energy. Stay sharp.

This is Kitty Killer. Let the survival begin.